I got the dreaded call from Gavin’s school today. He’s the youngest in the entire school. His teacher told us that he’s very smart, has an incredible vocabulary, and is brave.
“Hello is this, Matt? Gavin has been in the nurses office for about an hour. He’s OK, but he did bite his tongue and it won’t stop bleeding.”
While on the way to the ER, Gavin, fell asleep. I watched him in my rear view mirror knowing blood was filling his mouth. Eventually I could hear the blood interfering with his breathing. I asked him to wake up and swallow. He did, while half asleep, swallow the blood.
I parked outside the ER and grabbed paper towel. I reached back toward Gavin. I woke him up, with the paper towel ready to catch the blood. It took a moment for him to wake, but when he did, he wore a worried look and I could see he was active with his tongue inside his mouth. “It’s OK, just spit it into this.” Gavin opened his mouth and a clot was on top of his tongue. He spit the clot, along with more blood, into the paper towel.
He never once cried.
The ER doctors opted not to cauterize the laceration. They didn’t want to cause Gavin trauma. Megan held ice to his tongue all evening and finally the bleeding stopped.
And for some reason unknown to me, Gavin bounced his way up to ‘Alexa’ our digital-voice friend whom many of you might also have and said, “Alexa, play Charles Bukowski.”
Seems Gavin will be just fine. But I’m not.
-Matt
Heart pounds😥
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Yeah, the initial phone call had my adrenaline up
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That’s parenting
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Hang in there, Matt. Being a parent is the most vulnerable thing we do. It’s a whole exercise on letting the most precious thing you have be subject to all the good and bad things that happen and being unable to do a whole lot about it. It feels terrible and wonderful.
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Isn’t that the truth! This isn’t the first ‘call’ we’ve gotten. And certainly won’t be the last. At 12 month he suffered a severe burn. We got the call as Megan and I were just sitting down at our anniversary dinner.
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Yikes!
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Scary stuff! Glad to hear he is okay
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Yea. He’s good. Kept him home today to monitor
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I hope he’s fine now. God bless! 😊
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Thank you, I appreciate that. God bless
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I’m so curious what Charles Bukowski had to say.
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So glad to hear that Gavin is ok! ((hugs)) Parenting is riddled with those adrenaline-producing moments. Hope you are ok?
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I’m good now, thanks! I kept him home the following day to help ensure he wouldn’t bite the cut and have a do-over lol. The poor nurse at his school was so kind to him, but after and hour realized she simply couldn’t stop the bleeding.
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That’s good news! I’m sure you two had a wonderful day off. 🙂
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Thank goodness Gavin is ok! Sending healing energy!
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Thank you!
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Sounds awful.
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It wasn’t ideal, but he’s ok 🙂
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