My Dad told us we’d be different. That we’re Scottish and that we’d be barrel chested. I didn’t know what that meant. He told us that we’d be smart and not always understood. He told us lots of things that were hard to believe. He positioned us with confidence. His own creativity was taken for granted and I believe he wanted my brother and I to not let anyone take from us what might be ours in the space of creativity. I’d like to believe that we can all celebrate our differences including our talents. I’d like to believe it’s possible. I’m proud of you, Dad. You had the mind to be yourself. I’ll continue to do the same.
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That is the exact post I placed on my personal FB page as a partial goodbye to my father. I share it here because I feel a sense of respect and friendship with many of you whom I’ve connected with over the last number of years. I know some of you care, or for that, thank you. And while for a time, I didn’t see my father as a child, and when I did it was once a week on Sunday, he still made an impact on my life. I loved him and still do. May it be that I see him often in his perfect rest. Love you, Dad.
It was my father who helped to give permission to believe in writing.
I prefer being transparent. I want people to know what’s going on.
Matt
I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. I can see he made a beautiful impact on your life, and I’m so glad you are keeping that creative talent going.
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He certainly did. I truly got to know him entering my late 20s. In my opinion as I mentioned his creativity and talent was taken for granted. I have a plan to help with that though.
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Yes exactly, let that be your purpose. His creativity will not be wasted as you bring it forward ❤
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My thoughts will be with you. Take care of you and keep those creative fires stoked. I hope you’re ok.
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Hello and thank you. I’ve purposely suspended much writing. I am doing ok. Thank you and hope you are well also.
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Yep we’re doing way better. Finally moved son and I to greener pastures. Just coming off a few months break from writing while I adjusted and did my own version of grieving and it seems to have helped improve the quality over all and definitely feels like coming back to a friend who’s wizened up a bit in my absence.
Take care. I’m glad you’re ok.
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So pleased you have many positive feelings and memories about your father. Thanks for sharing them.
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Thank you. I tend to gravitate towards the positive and he helped to unlock a lot of things for me.
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I’m sorry, Matt. Thinking of you during this time of loss.
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Thank you Robyn. As always I appreciate your support and kindness
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I’m so sorry for your loss. I love how you’re remembering your father, it’s beautiful that he encouraged your writing. I think of my mom a lot, the memories have a healing quality to them.
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Thank you. I agree..I’m using the good memories to help to move forward..its helps and I feel he’s free from his pain now..and happy. Love to hear that you also cherish your memories
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This is a lovely tribute to your father Matt.
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Cheers
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I losed my father two years ago and even though I had a difficult relacion whith him I have an emptiness in my being.
I am really sorry for your loss.
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Thank you. I hope you are doing well
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Sorry for your loss..Take care. Hope You’re are doing well.
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You’re* doing well.🙏
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Thank you. Doing as well as possible.
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My Dad told us we’d be different. That we’re #Scottish and that we’d be barrel chested. I didn’t know what that meant.
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My deepest condolences but what a wonderful gift fir him to pass on to you: creativity.
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Absolutely agree and I’ll hold on to it tightly. Hope you are well.
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I am, thank you 😊
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A beautiful tribute, Matt. I am sorry for your loss.
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I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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