I like to give credit where I believe credit is due.
My wife, Megan, is a very talented designer.
Megan designed our entire house. Strangely enough,
Some bucked her, and us, during the entire duration
of the new house construction. Until the end. We
made adjustments. The bigger picture for me is this-
We nearly lost Megan. I’m not supposed to write about it.
Megan had emergency surgery which saved her life.
I’ll never forget finding her lying unconscious while our
son was in his high chair downstairs. Ready to pull himself
over at any moment while I was dialing 911.
The next hour pushed reality. The pain Megan was in,
the ambulance, Gavin crying as they took his mother;
I wasn’t able to get to the hospital in time, the
nurse cried when she saw me, while apologizing saying they
couldn’t wait any longer. We lost more than a few tears that day.
Megan was in full blown recovery for a month. My mother came
to stay with us to help. We still haven’t recovered.
I don’t know that we can. So we focused on the new house.
Whatever Megan wanted, I supported. I tell her she’s talented.
I don’t think she realizes just how talented. We’ve just begun
the process of making the new house a home. I’m thankful Megan
is here with us. The house, the design, Megan’s vision, none of these
dreams would have become realized if we lost her. And of course
the house itself is nothing compared to the health and life of my wife.
Thankfully, Megan was able to make tangible her gorgeous vision of our home.
We had our first drink at the island in the kitchen just after moving in.
I look at what your internal sight created, Megan, and I’m full of new emotion.
So dear, if I am with you in our house, and you see a tear running down my cheek,
it’s because I love that we still have you, and everything that I look at, is you.
I’m so sorry for what you experienced. Forgive me, I’m going to share a bit of you with the world.
I wish you and your family continued recovery and many years of happiness in your beautiful home!
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Thank you!
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OMG Matt. I am lost for words. But what a wonderful woman egan is. Thankyou for sharing her with us. May you have peace and a wonderful life now
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Thank you
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Matt, I love this tribute to your lovely wife. She’s a precious gem and I love that you have her and she has you.
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was hesitant to post it..
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I’m so glad you did, Matt.
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Thank you for sharing such a beautiful expression of the love and anguish mixed together you have gone through. May your days in your home be filled with peace and joy and the memory of the pain you and your wife experienced bring you closer.
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This is beautiful I’m speechless, ❤️
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Thank you. I’m looking at my wife now with a smile on my face.
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So sweet, very happy for your family
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How terrifying! I’m so glad she’s okay, and the kitchen is gorgeous!!
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